12 tips for divorced women

 Lee Block is the author of 'The Post Divorce "which offers advice to help women cope with the end of his marriage. Block, who also is a consultant expert on the subject, explains that divorce can be emotionally exhausting to as a death. Therefore, he listed a series of steps to overcome the divorce and demystify some common misconceptions and this type of breakup.
Admit that you've hit bottom
1. And admit that you did everything that was in your power to save your marriage and you realize that if you keep going, this will do more harm than good not only you but your husband and your children.
2. Already admitted you have no power over your marriage, you can not save, no matter what you do.
Take responsibility for your turn to end the marriage
3. One of the hardest parts in life is to take responsibility when something goes wrong, especially when it comes to something like a marriage. But taking responsibility offers a couple of things for your growth and personal empowerment.
4. It takes two to make a marriage work, and two for it to fail.
Prepare to be single or a single mother
5. Being single or single mom is the toughest job in the world. It all depends on you 24 hours a day, seven days a week, without rest. You need to be prepared mentally for this.
6. Prepare for when your children have to spend the weekend with his dad. What might seem like a party, it is not. It's hard because you will not close and you will wonder and worry about them.
Count your blessings
7. Make a list of all the things you're thankful every day. This helps keep things in perspective.
8. Realize how lucky you are because everyone is healthy, have a roof to live, food on your table and your children are nearby.
Set goals and visualize your future
9. Think about what you wanted to do with your life before marriage and those who fail. Now is the time to reach those goals.
10. Make a list of things you want to do before you die and draw a plan of how and when you achieve each one of them.
11. In a blackboard or in a journal write how you visualize your life in one year, five, ten and twenty years. See how you reach your goals according to what you're thinking.
12. Create a positive mantra you repeat to yourself every morning.